Whose love is great mom? Or dad?

In generally, elders ask do you like your mother or father as we are child.. actually I don’t think ..this is such a good question.. if it is asked once for fun, that is okay. But it is better not to bring this question in front of children every time.

Because children need parents. Not just mom or dad. Then both are responsible for the birth of child, why should one be the only one? In the case of children…the role of the both is equal in sharing responsibility, love and correcting their mistakes. What should parents do for children to respect their parents? Let’s see now..

Minor quarrels usually happen between husband and wife. They should never be brought in front of children. Don’t talk about each others faults in front of children, even for fun. Only when husband and wife respect each other.. children will respect you. Not only you are relationship grow, because of respect how should your children also be with their life partner. Don’t forget that parents are the first guide for children.

When it comes to telling children anything, both parents should be on the same page. Two should say that.. not to eat ice Cream means not to eat. It’s not like if you eat once, you give to each other without knowing.. all these things usually happening many homes. In order to get what they need at the time, they talk to you supporting you. Remember that children’s are much smarter than parents in this matter..

You have to children you should take them equally. It is different to think that both of us are equal, it is different to behave in that way.. make comparisons in small things, to say that he is older than you, to show difference between boy and girl.. etc. It seems that they are small things to show it.. but remaining their minds forever.

Be careful with teenage children. Don’t do things like putting too many restrictions, giving comparison and suggestions. If you have any problem with them, please sit and talk to them directly. Don’t ask anyone for advice. No one knows your children better than you. Don’t make everyone is a psychiatrist. Your house problems should be solved at your home. There is no need for psychiatrist, if you can understand your children.

Also, discuss everything that is happening at home with them, it is elders matter you don’t need to say why? If you have any financial issues, sit and talk with them. They should not think.. they are avoiding us”. And they will understand how hard you are trying to lead the family.

The foundation of good society, starts with a good family. Your children will come tomorrow as doctor’s teachers and parents in the society. It is everyone’s responsibility to build a good society