Who is most affected by domestic violence in India

Many surveys says that.. 80% of domestic violence cases registerd against men in India are fake. I am not saying that.. every case recorded is false. According to the figures of 2018, some surveys show that, 72% of women suffer from physical and mental harassment. The sad thing is that…most of them are educated and people who are financially independent.

How is this possible? Are the survey are false? Are the cases being registered are false? It is a big difficult to answer this question..

Quarrels between husband and wife happen in their house. There are many reasons for that. They are not ready to accept their mistakes, anyone in front of the society. Who knows what is the truth is?? Then who is at fault? How did they do it?? How can the courts decided??

I don’t mean to say that all the surveys are fake.. I don’t even know, how they do it? What I am saying is that…this whole process is a personal thing done by these people..

The domestic violence act in India.. came into force in 2005 which means it was made into law almost 18 years ago…

This law is in accordance with that time. As soon as the case is registered, the boy and his family are arrested without investigating. Don’t think about how much truth is in harassment.

Many lawyer says that.. at least boy don’t even have a chance to speak in the court. According to the time…there is no mistake in bringing in such strict laws. But now things have changed.. there is a need to bring changes in the laws as well..

In this regard, the perspective of society should also change. A girl has been wronged means.. stop thinking only emotionally, start thinking a little more practically..

Injustice is equal to everyone.. if you are target of abuse by your life partner, remember some points (either you are a boy or a girl)

It is not possible to tell based on one or two incidents as to who is doing most of the mistakes. It depends on the nature..

2. Those such people have it toxic mentality which means that being happy with their life partner is not important for them. But they want a life partner and Hence they want to maintain the relationship even if it is forced.

3. If you are being subject to physical or mental harassment, don’t bear it. Face the situation with courage. Like everyone else, you have the right to live freely and happily.

4. There is no need to fear of society or laws. Your problems can’t be solved by courts better than you. If you don’t say a mistake, is a mistake.. the mistake will become a habit for everyone.

5. Many girls in these days are doing jobs which means they are financially independent. Okay this is good.. money is not the solution to all your problems. If you work you will get money, but not family. So think and decide your future.

6. Lastly.. cannot hold on to any relationship for long by force. If you go to the court, there you will only get divorce. This is the climax of your any action. So if you don’t like it, leave it happily.

No matter how times change.. men need women.. women need men.. the position of both is equal always..