Toughest journey in women’s life (part 3)
Let’s start new life..
Don’t think that it’s all over after having children, we have passed the big time.. actually it is starting from here. Parents have lifelong anxiety about their children. The responsibility is not only mothers, but also the father’s. Mentally, “I have become a father”should be fixed. As for the mother, she has to face many challenges physically and mentally.
There are many changes in your body. Weight gain and hair fall problem are mainly seen. Don’t start dieting because you have gained weight. Because you have to feed your baby.
Don’t miss this one. Breast milk is very necessary for a baby up to 1 year. You are feeding means.. you are giving your energy to them. That’s why you need to be healthy. This breast milk you give, will give life long health to your baby.
Also, mental stress is increases. The main reason, for this stress is children not to sleeping at night. Due to lack of sleep, a little stress increases in the mind. The burden of work falls on the mother, as the mother does all the work related to the children. Mothers have to face such situations till they get individualty.
When there are changes in the body, it is very necessary to make some changes in ourselves. Especially for working women.. after having children.. it is very difficult to choose the option of family or career.
Both are important. No need to stress and think about it. If you want to continue your job, leave the children happily at home with the maids. Or take your parents help. You will not be a bad mother as long as you keep the children near maids. If you want to leave the job, leave it.. a mother’s responsibilities greater than this. Do whatever you like.. above all, take your own decision. Don’t go to anyone for advice.
Being your mother is so difficult.. it’s result is also beautiful. There is no luck for girls than to be a mother.. if someone say such words, don’t feel bad for childless parents. Strengthen you are relationship with your partner. You can be a parent to a child who has no parents. I mean it’s adoption. Why even this generation partners are not able to accept this..
Love that grows is always greater than love that is born..