Three types of bonds are the most important for human being

Relationships play a very big role in everyone’s life. Bonds are formed in one form, or another in the life of a human being. How to bound with anyone? Why does it occur? The foundation of a relationship is the love and trust in between two people. What are the most important bonds for everyone to have? Bonds are really necessary or not?

Wife and husband relationship :

Many people say that marriage is necessary? If there is no marriage, then there is no human birth. To be honest,this relationship is very strange. The bond of husband and wife does not exist from birth. They are not even related by blood but the only bond that lasts till the end is that of husband and wife.

The relationship between parents and children :

Selfless love in this world means that belongs to parents. They do a lot for the happiness and life of children. Who knows better about children than parents? Such a great bond can only be formed by husband and wife being together.

But why this relationship does not last until the end. When a tree grows, the distance between the tree and the ground increases. When the distance increases, the tree also grows. Only then can the tree provide shade for others. Like childrens live go where they want. Don’t put any restrictions on them. Know the truth that, your success lies in the success of your children.

Friendship :

It is a relationship that we make ourselves. We have to choose our friends. There is no need to stay till the end, but definitely be there for you when you are in trouble. That is it true friendship. Your difficulty should be understand without saying anything. Be careful while choosing a friend. Your friendship shows your personality to society, so be careful about that. A bad friendship be lead you down a bad path.

In any relationship there will be small problems, because no one cannot think like another one. They cannot survive by killing their likes, desires and hopes. So listen to others first. If they don’t like something, think why they don’t like it. Hate on purpose? Or do they really have bad qualities? Know that..

There is no need to stay together in any relationship that you don’t like. Freedom and independents are essential in any relationship. Also don’t put too much expectations in any relationship. My life partner should be like this…my children should be scientist when they are grow up…my friend should always listen to me. . these restrictions take away from our bonds.

Can’t we live without any bond? Can’t we live alone? We can survive not a big deal. There are many people who have survival and succeeded alone. A bond is only a companion. We need a bond to share our happiness, pain and success. If we share, our pain will be solved. Our happiness is increases. But the ultimate success in life is you only.