Three things, parents over think about their kids

Parents are always thinking about their children. It can be called the responsibility of love. Parents are afraid and think differently. A problem can be always be solved by thinking. Now let’s see that, especially in these three things, parents think and fear more about their children

Education :

No parent is wrong in expecting their children to study well. They spend a lot of money for it. But the thing to think, about here is that, there are many things to teach children along with education. Physical education, financial education and also a good behaviour.

If your child has any talent other than studies, improve it. Train in activities other than studies from childhood, another talent along with studies, refresh their mind. Moreover it develops into a hobby. Maybe in the future, the same can be become a profession for them.

Say that.. education is also important. Education is the only thing that can save you in any difficult situations in life. I don’t mean to say that they are useless, if they don’t get education. About all don’t study for marks and ranks. What they learn from studying? How did they work for you? Let them know, studying is what you practice, passing an exam or getting a job means what you study and your talent.

Health :

Not much can be said about this, health is important not only for children but for everyone. But some attention is needed, in a case of children. What food is necessary for physical growth? How long to sleep? Playing outside, they are keeping away from screen time (tv, mobiles are the part of the health) but parents, especially mothers, don’t get too tense it about this. Children are never be same. Give them ice cream once a week. But it should not be so easy. Say waking up on time, or eating healthy food will get you ice cream. But it is not a daily, but once a week, once they eat them.. they will not see any major changes in their body.

I don’t want to say that this all the only good food. Good food where is from region to region, country to period. Avoid outside food at all. In my opinion, homemade oil, sugar, salty foot is somewhat is ok.

There should also be some control. When you put what they like, put it as limited. Buy less of I will give you tomorrow and next week. When the screen time is too much, if you turn off the mobile, tell them that, you will give them, the food what they like. If they like it less, they will like it more. If you given too much, they will become addicted to it.

Behaviour or discipline :

These two almost fall into the same category. A common mistake is made by all parents when it comes to teaching discipline.. is comparing children. Things you like, if you see other kids you keep comparing it with your kids. That means they are like you. Your children are not like that. Why won’t your kids listen to you? You maybe something wrong with the way you say it.. or it may mean they don’t like the job.

If you say it once and don’t listen, say it then another way. Tell me that, if you change your behaviour, it will better for you. Give some motivational speech or some any other moral stories. Try to make a difference in your children. Apart from that, don’t do the comparison. Comparison breeds more stubbornness. Can be Strict if necessary, not wrong but tell them with love.

Children are not just a family, also our society.