Negativity

We live with different people around us. We love some people and make friendship with some people. In some cases, you have to stay with other people whatever they like it or not. No matter who they are, sometimes we are someone else has to adjust. They are some people who can’t change their mind set in any situation, they are called toxic people.

How is there mindset :

It is very typical. They think what they believe and what they do is right. Not only they do it, they say that everyone should do the same thing. If someone can’t do that then hate them. If they are successful in life, they don’t like it. Somehow they disturb others life and neglect their own work. Whoever they don’t like, they negative about them. They are not ready to admit their wrong doing. They are not happy and cannot make someone else happy.

What is the difference between toxic people and stubborn people :

There is a very good difference. Many people think that stubbornness and toxic people are the same thing. Those who are stubborn have their own ideas, they bravely face whatever happiness, success or pain comes in there failure. They have a clarity on the decision to take them. Of course if they don’t listen to others, it means they have some ideas of their own. They follow them. anyone has the right to make any decision about our personal matter.

What is the reason for becoming toxic people :

We cannotism especially during the childhood the stage itself. As a parent you can find it. If your children speak take negatively about their friends…aur if someone prices them to get more marks, they will not be able to bear it. It most of symptomses appear in your child, prevent it at an early age. Encourage them in this way…

* If any of your friends are studying well, tell them that whoever studies well will be praised
*. If don’t like someone tell them to stay away from them.

When they have some talent increase them to have talent, to have some talent in you too also

Say that you can improve it too and then everyone will appreciate you too

How should you deal with toxic people :

This is a very difficult task…if they see your spread of negativity about you, don’t pay too much attention on it. Stay away from them. When you make mistake, they are always waiting to see, if there is a fault.. with you. May them understand that, mistakes are made by anyone. Our colleagues, neighbours, friends , even some relatives can also be avoided if there are like this…but it is very difficult to avoid why for husband or our blood relation if there are such people..

Will there be a chance to change toxic people :

Those who want to change,cannot be change. They have all kinds of happiness in their life, they can never be receive it successfully. They give more importance to others than their own life. Even if they are unhappy doing one thing above all else, they don’t care if there happiness is ruined. They think that thinking is correct. The biggest problem is that they don’t have the intelligence to think.

No one gets any big problems because of people. It’s just a small inconvenience, our work being late by 1 or 2 to 3 days. So there is no need to waste time to thinking about them too much. It’s such people are in your life, we have more interesting in our life too. Forget their words, and make your work happy.