I am single

Are you single child to your parents? It means that you are one and only child to your parents?? If it is yes, there is no one more fortunate than you in this world. Yes it’s true. Many children feel that if I have a younger sister, or brother, I would play with them, help them a lot, I would share my pain with them. How many single child thinking like that.. not only when they are young, but even after growing up, they have the same feeling. But as I said first, let’s see why the single child children are so lucky..

1. No comparison :

Yes a common problem with all parents is comparing themselves to each other. At this time, the first child has not got any words yet.. you are very active, he studies better than you, he gets along with everyone faster than you…comparison like this or very common in every home. And single child children think a while…have you ever faced such comparison?? Of course either friends are cousins with you but they are very less for you.. maybe these all only once and twice and not at everyday.

2. Your parents love is all yours :

When you are parents have two children, you and your sibling .. they should treat equally. If you are an only child, all they love will be yours. They are always thinking about you. There is no need to feel like there is no one to share our pain. Share your feeling with your parents. You will also increase bonding with them.

3. It’s came from the society :

Hey are you a single child? Why don’t you have siblings? Such questions or repeatedly received by us from the society. It not came from our mind, do you know how well I play with my sister at home”?? If you hear such words from your friends, don’t worry too much.. whether your parents have two girls or two boys you will face the question.. you have no sisters? You have no brothers?? This society has a habit of asking only about what you don’t have..

You only get that feeling when you are young that we are alone. The distance is between siblings also increases along with their ages. I am not saying this is wrong.. it is something that happens very naturally and everyone has to accept it.