I always enjoy my solitude..
Do you always feel like, you should be alone? Why do you feel like that? Ever think, we always want to be alone in two situations. One is when we are in pain, and two is when we can enjoy our solitude.
Can we enjoy our solitude? How can it is possible?
I am alone at home most of the time, expect weekends. I spend 80% of the time at home is alone. Not only me, many women face is situation. As for me, and definitely enjoying it. Is it boring to be alone? When someone ask like this.. I said No. Yes I am alone but not empty.
For those who doing, there is always work. House work, gardening and cooking. Of course cooking is my favourite activity. If we eat the recipe that we like, not someone else made it, but as we like it. That satisfaction is different. Of course, loneliness also told me that I have writing talent. Every person has some opinions and preferences. Not everything can be shared with everyone. Write it down on a piece of paper. But writing it is everyday your writing skill will improve.
I don’t want to say that Iam a great writer. But when you start writing on paper, these thoughts are transferred from your mind to the paper. Then you mind will be free. It is not necessary everyone holding pen and paper should be in gnapith award. If what we do give us happiness, if it makes us happy, then we have own over ourselves. When we are able to enjoy your solitude, it means that we are free from our pain. And it means that we are working regardless of what people around us think about us.
On a weekend, I enjoy sitting at home, listening to my favourite music.. rather than watching a movie with 10 friends. I don’t mean to say that we don’t want relationship with people. Relationship with ourselves are very important. We have to take a long journey with ourselves.
They left me alone at home, nobody needs me.. don’t let such thoughts enter your mind. Going to school, going to office are their work. What is your work? You have to think about it yourself. We have no right to ask someone else to sacrifice they live for us.
This is something everyone who leads a single life should know. What do you need more luck than being alone? Only solitude gives us the freedom and opportunity to be as we please.
