How are you being deceived?

Cheating is not a mistake, it is a choice..

This is the best quote, I have heared recently. And I believe it is 100% truth. If someone has deceived you in any matter, is it their cleverness or your ignorance?

If you have been cheated in a relationship, it’s not a pain that goes away in a day. It is a reminder of how much valuable time you wasted for an idiot. We keep recalling the lies they told us and feel hurt again and again. If it is in a business, we lose a lot of money and trust.

We are certainly giving others the chance to deceive us. As long as we give them that opportunity they will continue to use us.

What can we do avoid being deceived?

No one will write on their faces “I am fraud”there are no specific signs for this. It depends on your wisdom and awareness.

When you get acquainted with new people don’t share all your secrets with them. Avoid revealing your weakness, observe how they behave with you when you have face problems. People who intended to take advantage of you, whether physically or emotionally wait for the moment when you are weak. When you are situation is good, everyone will be nice to you.

Try to protect yourself from being deceived. If someone comes a long and try to hum you in a someday, don’t dwell on it and feel hurt. Don’t let them bring by making you in suffer in your pain.

Don’t waste your time trying to take revenge on them. Instead, focus on succeeding when you once stumbled, and start your life a new. Concentrate on your personal growth. Understand that true victory lies in rising about and moving forward, not in defeating others.