Changes inevitable growth is optional

Are we wrong in thinking about ourselves? Many people say, do you always care yourself? What others people think about you? True. When we think properly it’s look like selfishness. But how every one success begin is because of what they think about himself. If you write well in exams, you will get a good job. If you get a good job you can live independently.

Who is this all for? Yes, for us. Where is the selfishness in this? Everyone should think about himself from birth. Education, job, career, finally even in old age.. they should think about themselves. Take care of health, don’t depend on anyone financially, then even death will come with the dignity.

1. What is real personal growth :

Conquering yourself. Finding solution to your problems. Being honest about your work. If over weight is your problem, you need to solve it. Then you will gain confidence in yourself. Make a plan of what to eat for the day, a one day plan can be the first step in the weight loss journey. If you do the same for a week.. it will be like a success if you lose 1 kg of weight in this week.

2. Why is personal growth so important ?

Everyone has a problem. Focus on your personal growth to solve whatever your problem is.. if you have a health problem, go to doctor and take their advice. If you are busy with your work you will not remember your problems. Problems will not go away, if you sit and worry.. about the existence of problems. Moreover you will not be able to develop in terms of career. Change yourself in some way, then your life will become more interesting to you.. this is the power of personal growth.

3. Sacrifice is of no use :

Sacrifice is a great word. You shoulder willingly lays down his life to save his country. Why should only a soldier to this? Everyone is responsible for the country. This is the meaning of true sacrifice. Is your sacrifice really recognised that much.

If you want to sacrifice something in your life, think about whether they value or not. If you want to help any poor student then you can. But think whether they deserve it or not. Do they really have the intelligence of study, poverty should never be a qualification for help. Also don’t give them anything for free. What comes easy is never valuable.

4. It is wrong to want to help others?

No. If you started business and succeed in it, you can give employment to some other people along with you. Is it not a help? Because of you, the families of some others are standing. All this is because of the success you have achieved in business. Your success is not always yours, but everyone. If you are a doctor, your education will save many people. If you are an actor, it will entertain hundred people for a while.

5. Is someone think bad about me :

This one feeling stops everyone’s life right there. What does it matter to anyone else to do what you love, why do they give you permission to do what you love, you can do whatever you like even if you are parents don’t supported. Let them know your talent then they will know that you have some power. Then everyone will support you. If you change, those around you will change.

A distance of 100 feet start with a single step. Remember that the first step you take today is the foundation of your success of some years later. If each flower is threaded, it becomes a garland. Small changes you makes in life or the foundation of big achievements.