Are you free at home
“What are you doing” we keep hearing this question since childhood. If someone asks.. we say that we are studying and letter we are doing a job. And if you ask a girl, same question after marriage, maybe that girl is a house wife, do you know what is the saying everyone? Why are you staying free at home?
What is the thing that everyone in the house shooting about…is your mom ever free? You don’t need to think for a long time. You will get the answer in just 1 minute.
When and how did this question actually start? My mother is also housewife. But my mother is never faced this question. Yes I accepted, my mother did not study, at least she didn’t complete 10th class. But she was always respected as a housewife and above all as a mother. But now this is the question that many women are facing. Because the number of educated women has increased. Why can’t you get a job even after studying, why are you sitting at home always.
I don’t understand how it can be doing nothing, if there is no job. There are many educated girl who give up their jobs just for the sake of their family. Really hats off to all of them. This is something only a mother can do. Why should she give up her life because she is a mother. It is not possible for anyone, only mother can do.
I am not dispararing working women. Indeed they doing is also big task. It is really a great thing to be able to do all the work efficiently at home and office. Must be respected them.
Also another thing, why do you have a helper? What do you do after your husband and childrens gone? This question is commonly faced by the housewife. The office has many step to work. Management staff, working staff, like this means not all the work can be done by one person. But why should in the women in the house do all the work alone. Cooking, cleaning, children chores among all these works, they are not able to spend time for them. It is very important to take care of them physically and mentally
1. Take time for yourself. No matter how busy you are with your family works, focus on your favourite work.
2. Social media is always with you to show your talent. Everything does not have to be tied to money. Money is only for encouragement.
3. It is not saying that your family is not important. Certainly,mother’s responsibility is paramount in the matter of family.But the family can be happy only with the mother is happy.
4. If you want to start your career again, start it happily. I forgot the work, salary will decrease.. there is no need to think about such things. Loneliness come early in women life.
5. Many opportunity like part time job, social media, working from home etc.. above all ..remember one thing. Housewife is not a job, it is a responsibility. Responsibility is always greater than job. Always be proud to be housewife. Please everyone respect them .
A housewife is also the one who makes it soldier family who takes care of the country.