Are you expecting support from anyone?
One of my favourite movie is English vinglish. Sridevi played the lead role. If you have seen that movie, remember the role of Sridevi’s husband on it. He always insults his wife and her work. Look like a small villain to watch. But I don’t think so…
His wife making sweets and going to sell everyone’s house, look like a small job for him. But he never stopped her doing that.. when her sisters daughter gets married, he sends her alone to America. Moreover it takes care of his children. What is the important point of all, he mocks her, not knowing English…and finally after his wife persistently learns it, he appreciate her. (If anyone want to watch this movie, it’s available on YouTube).
Maybe it is a movie, the characters may be fictitious. Even in real life, we become across similar characters. Friends, relatives, neighbours.. it can be anywhere. Through the things they do and the words they says, we get a somewhat negative impression on them. A person should never be expected to be good in all situations. Even we can’t always be like that..
Moreover, if we always get support from someone, which stop thinking about ourselves. No matter what happens to us, we feel that.. they are for us. Support means.. not hindering our work. Why should someone else, support what you want to do? What is need for that? If we don’t intentionally hander our work, it is called support.
Of course at that moment we feel pain. We get angry on them. But remember.. sometimes if we change, the circumstances will be change. We should keep doing our work without feeling sad, that mocked us.. remember one thing..
Even if others don’t like what we are doing,if there are encouraging us, it means that they are giving priority.
