A day for the grand parents
Grandparents day is celebrated on 10th September every year. I didn’t know about this until now. Whatever.. it is important to give a day for grandparents and celebrate it. It is even more important for the children of this generation.
These days the relationship between grandparents and children is very less.. why?? the main reason is the departure from the joint families. Children’s day we from their parents because of their job or business whatever.. therefore, there are situations where the grand children are also staying away from the grandparents. And how will the relationship between them stand? Is that even possible?
Why not? it is possible..
But for that let’s find out what grandparents as well as children must what to do first…
There is nothing wrong with any parent wanting their children to be with us all the time, but your children’s future is also important.. so let them stay where their future is.. please don’t put any restrictions on them.
If they have to stay for away from you, the time you spend with them will be very less. There is no need to worry about the short time.. think about how valuable the time you spend with them is..
Tell good moral stories. Play with tell them what you were like in your time. Also share with your children (parents of your grand children) childhood things and some fun things with them.
“we are not educated much.. what shall we tell them? No need to think that.. knowledge is never limited to books only. You have a seen a lot of life. How to face problem with courage? Never miss the little Joys in life. Tell them these things..
Above all, how beautiful human relationships were even in the days without internet and gadgets. Let them know these things..
Finally one word.. the life your grand children live today is very different from the life you have seen in your life. You can’t become like them, and you can’t take them into your time. Make it beautiful and let it be memory for them.
Also if you want everyone to respect you, your action should also be the same. You should correct their mistakes. Your behaviour should also be Sobber.
“parents tell you only one thing.. if you respect your parents, your children will respect you. No matter how busy you are.. talk to them for a while laughing and having fun with them”
And finally for grand children..
Especially for teenage children.. first learn to respect them. They don’t know how to speak English, they don’t know even what selfie is.. if such thoughts are in your mind, remove them immediately your happiness may be in your smartphone, but there happiness is in spending time with you. Children,! If you get a chance to spend time with your grandparents, please don’t miss it. You will surely have a beautiful memory for rest of your life